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angelakI hate watching friends do stupid things.
Mel got back with Ryland. I am bummed out.
She is trying it again without Ryan in the picture.
This sucks.
Not that I don't think her and Ryan don't need space. They do.
But, Ryland is just.
Well. We all have to make our own mistakes.
And as I told her:
"Honestly. We do what we do and if we feel it is right then we've got something to learn from it regardless of whether it works or fails. And nobody can ever tell us when that is right or if it is or isn't."
*siiiiiiiiiighsss*
I know this is true. But just for my own sanity, I want to scream at her, "NO! NO! NO! This is all wrong. He is SO nowhere near good enough for you, girl."
:/
But it isn't my call to make. Just like nobody could have told me that giving it the ole shot #2 with Khaya wasn't the best either. And I had a lot to learn from it. No one can tell you these things.
-Angela
Mel got back with Ryland. I am bummed out.
She is trying it again without Ryan in the picture.
This sucks.
Not that I don't think her and Ryan don't need space. They do.
But, Ryland is just.
Well. We all have to make our own mistakes.
And as I told her:
"Honestly. We do what we do and if we feel it is right then we've got something to learn from it regardless of whether it works or fails. And nobody can ever tell us when that is right or if it is or isn't."
*siiiiiiiiiighsss*
I know this is true. But just for my own sanity, I want to scream at her, "NO! NO! NO! This is all wrong. He is SO nowhere near good enough for you, girl."
:/
But it isn't my call to make. Just like nobody could have told me that giving it the ole shot #2 with Khaya wasn't the best either. And I had a lot to learn from it. No one can tell you these things.
-Angela
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Date: 2006-11-28 07:06 pm (UTC)jepps
Date: 2006-11-28 07:09 pm (UTC)Although I wanted her to understand that obviously - my advice can only go so far.
-Angela
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Date: 2006-11-28 10:33 pm (UTC)back when I knew Ryland... I think I last saw him Sophomore year, when he hung out with Elliot? He was pretty hot...
LOL. It just still makes me go WTF RYLAND OMG> because... geez, Jordan Wallace's big brother. I've probably seen him in his underwear. I think he used to throw rocks at their cat.
Blah
Date: 2006-11-28 11:44 pm (UTC)Beauty being skin deep?
He's not a bad person.
He's just a lousy boyfriend.
And desperation is no good recipe for a relationship.
Not saying either of them is perfect, but blah. This goes deeper than what I am willing to post here, though. Obviously.
-Angela